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How to look more attractive as a guy
You've been looking in the mirror and searching "how to look more attractive as a guy" at 1am. The internet will tell you to measure your jaw and hate your face. Ignore it. Most of what makes a guy attractive is stuff you can change this week, and none of it involves hitting your face with anything.
Jules's read
I'm a trainer, so people assume I'm going to say abs. Honestly? Abs are a bonus round. When I notice a guy, it's in this order. Does he look put together, meaning clean haircut, clothes that fit, nice skin. Does he stand like he's comfortable. Does he smell good when he walks past. Does he smile. A guy with an average face who nails those looks so much better than a handsome guy in a stretched out t shirt with bad posture.
The fixes that matter most
- A real haircut, every 3 to 5 weeks. Ask the barber what suits your face shape and hair. Clean up the neck and sides between cuts.
- Clothes that fit. Shoulder seams at your shoulders, sleeves that hit mid bicep, pants without extra fabric bunching. This alone changes everything. See how to dress better on a budget.
- Skin. Gentle cleanser, moisturizer with SPF in the morning. That's it. Three minutes a day.
- Posture. Shoulders back and down, chin level. You instantly look taller and more confident. Here's how to fix bad posture fast.
- Smell. Shower, deodorant, one subtle cologne, two sprays. Here's how to smell good all day.
- Move your body. Three workouts a week changes your shape in months and your mood in days.
Do and don't
Do
- Do groom your eyebrows and beard, or keep a clean shave.
- Do wear solid, darker colors that fit well.
- Do sleep and drink water. Tired skin looks tired.
Don't
- Don't follow looksmaxxing advice that tells you to hurt yourself or hate your face.
- Don't buy a whole new wardrobe. Start with three pieces that fit.
- Don't skip the smile. A real smile is the most attractive thing you own.
Texts you can send
hey, can i get in this week? want to try something new, open to what you think suits me
be honest, which of my shirts actually fit and which ones should go
what would you do with my hair if it was yours
A woman's read
When I meet a guy, I'm not scanning his face for flaws. I'm noticing if he took care of himself today. Fresh haircut, a shirt that fits his shoulders, standing up straight, smells clean. That reads as confident and grown up, and it's honestly hot. The guys who look the best aren't the ones with perfect features. They're the ones who look like they like themselves a little.
Your mission tonight
The move
Tonight, go through your closet and pull out three things that actually fit you well. Put everything that's stretched, faded or too big in a bag. Then book a haircut for this week and set a 3 minute skin routine next to your toothbrush. Start tomorrow morning.
Keep going
For the full list, see grooming basics for men and how to get in shape for dating. For your dating profile, how to look better in photos for dating apps.
Questions guys ask
How can I look more attractive as a guy?
Start with what you can change fast. A good haircut every few weeks, clothes that fit, a simple skin routine, good posture and smelling clean. These matter more than face shape to most women.
How can I look more attractive in the face as a guy?
Groom your eyebrows and beard, get a haircut that suits your face shape, take care of your skin, sleep enough and smile. Skip anything that tells you to hurt your face or obsess over measurements.
What do women find attractive in men physically?
Mostly being put together and taking care of yourself. Fit clothes, good grooming, posture, smelling nice and a real smile. A fit body is a plus, not a requirement.
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