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Grooming basics for men
Grooming is the cheapest glow up there is. You don't need ten products. You need a few habits, and women notice them right away.
Haircut
Get one every three to five weeks. Find a barber you like and stick with them. Ask what works for your face and hair type, and have them show you how to style it. Get it cut a few days before a date, not the morning of.
Beard or shave
Pick one and commit. If you keep a beard, trim it regularly and clean up the neckline and cheek line. A scruffy, uneven beard looks like neglect. If you shave, use a fresh blade and a little shave cream to avoid irritation.
Skin
Three things:
- A gentle face wash, morning and night.
- A moisturizer.
- Sunscreen during the day. It's the best anti aging thing you can do.
That's it. Two minutes. If you have acne or a skin issue that won't clear up, see a dermatologist.
Hands and nails
Short and clean. Trim once a week. Women notice hands, especially on a date.
Teeth and breath
Brush twice, floss, and keep gum or mints with you. Go to the dentist. Fresh breath matters more than almost anything on a date.
Scent
Shower, deodorant, and one fragrance you like. Two sprays, max. She should only notice it when she's close.
The little stuff
Trim nose and ear hair. Keep your eyebrows from meeting in the middle. Use lip balm in winter. Small, quick and noticed.
Texts you can send
thanks. my barber is a genius and i take no credit
thinking about growing a beard. yes or no, be honest
i bought a face moisturizer today. im a changed man
A woman's read
Grooming tells a woman that you take care of yourself, and that you'll probably take care of things in general. A fresh haircut, a clean beard line, short nails and decent breath are noticed every single time. Fancy products aren't. You can be a regular guy in a plain tee and still look like the most put together guy in the room.
The move
Book a haircut this week. Buy a gentle face wash, a moisturizer with sunscreen, and nail clippers if you don't have them, and start the five minute routine tomorrow.
Make it a routine
Morning: wash face, moisturizer with sunscreen, deodorant, brush teeth, style hair. Night: wash face, brush and floss. Weekly: nails and beard. Once you've got that, upgrade your clothes with how to dress better on a budget and how to dress better for dates.
Questions guys ask
What is a basic grooming routine for men?
Wash face and moisturize with sunscreen in the morning, wash face at night, brush and floss, and trim nails and beard weekly.
How often should men get a haircut?
Every three to five weeks keeps it looking sharp, depending on the style.
Do women care about grooming?
Many notice it right away. A good haircut, clean nails and fresh breath tend to stand out more than clothes.
When should I see a dermatologist?
If acne, rashes or other skin issues do not improve with a simple routine, a dermatologist can help.
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