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How to text your wife during the day
Look at your text thread with your wife. If it's "can you grab milk," "who's getting the kids," and "ok," you're not alone. But you're missing a really easy way to make her feel wanted every single day.
Logistics aren't connection
Married texts slowly become a shared calendar. That's fine, it has to happen. But add something every day that isn't about the house. One text that's about her, not about tasks.
Be specific
"Love you" is nice, and she'll take it. "Still thinking about how you looked in that dress last night" is better. Specific shows you were paying attention, and paying attention is what makes her feel chosen.
Flirt a little
You're allowed to flirt with your wife. A little tease, a compliment about her body, a hint about tonight. Keep it playful, read the room, and save the steamy stuff for when you know she's not in a meeting.
Be funny
Send the thing that made you laugh because you knew she'd laugh too. Inside jokes count double.
Check in on her day
Remember what she had going on. The presentation, the doctor's appointment, the call with her sister. "How'd it go?" shows you hold her life in your head.
Don't overdo it
One or two good texts a day beat a stream. You're not trying to fill her phone. You're trying to make her smile at 2pm.
Texts you can send
just thinking about you. thats it. thats the text
cant stop thinking about you in that black top this morning
how did the big meeting go. did you crush it like i think you did
kids in bed by 8 tonight. im opening the good wine
the dog stole a whole bagel off the counter. he has no regrets and neither do i
A woman's read
Every wife I know lights up at the same thing. A text in the middle of a boring workday that has nothing to do with chores. It reminds me he still sees me as the woman he dated, not just the person who knows where the passports are. It takes him ten seconds. It changes my whole afternoon.
The move
Today, send her one text that isn't about logistics. Something specific you like about her, or a hint about tonight.
Turn it into tonight
The best day texts set up the evening. A hint, a plan, a "can't wait to see you." Then follow through when you get home. For more, read how to make your wife feel appreciated and how to flirt over text.
Questions guys ask
How often should I text my wife during the day?
One or two thoughtful texts beat a lot of small ones. Quality over quantity.
What are sweet texts to send my wife?
Specific ones. A compliment about something she did or wore, a memory, or a check in on something she had going on today.
How do I flirt with my wife over text?
Tease a little, compliment her, and hint about later. Keep it playful and mind her schedule.
My wife does not text much. Should I still text her?
Yes. Let her reply when she can. Many people love getting texts even if they are not big texters themselves.
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